IF you think that your emotional problems make you unworthy of being in the presence of others,
let me tell you something,
you and your emotions are very likely one of the most valuable aspects that people look to you for.
Allow your negative emotions.
IF anyone is trying to convince you they have the answer, they are more concerned with attempting to have YOU validate THEIR perspective than they are with you finding YOUR answer. If the answer was indeed true for you, you would know by the way it resonates with you.
I am so sorry for you, that our parents, and I tried to invalidate your negative emotions...
They NEVER WERE BAD, and they were never a means to make YOU bad. I am so sorry for any pain or anguish I may have caused you. I don't even want you to forgive me; I just want to say I am deeply sorry and remorseful.
...as hard as it is to believe, I did not know better.
And there are still days when I don't know better.
I love you and will be here for you whenever you need me. I need nothing from you and look towards you with a deep sense of gratitude for your perspective. I am learning and gaining so much from seeing and participating with your perspective. Know that you are never alone, that there's nothing wrong with being alone, and that I love you,
from the time you rise, to the time you set, and every moment in between, during your day, know that I love you and look forward to loving you even more today than I did yesterday.
Don't be mistaken though, its not that I find it hard to love you, at all... it's that when you live another day, another moment, another year... I find so much more to appreciate about you. IT'S not that you are becoming more lovable,
there just becomes even more of you for me to love. It's the great paradox of 1/1 and 5,000/5,000. They both equal 1, just by different means. And when you expand and experience something you don't like, we expand our number outward. So lets say 1/1 becomes 1/3. And THEN, You, the numerator and I work together to find each other again at 3/3. This is why you may feel lonely at times, it is because there is the illusion of a hole or gap. But let me let you in one a secret... you are Whole and there never was a gap... only another page for you to turn in the beautiful bedtime story, action, romance, beautiful, novel of your life.
Have fun writing today, Jon
Love,
Yours Truly.
10:10
let me tell you something,
you and your emotions are very likely one of the most valuable aspects that people look to you for.
Allow your negative emotions.
IF anyone is trying to convince you they have the answer, they are more concerned with attempting to have YOU validate THEIR perspective than they are with you finding YOUR answer. If the answer was indeed true for you, you would know by the way it resonates with you.
I am so sorry for you, that our parents, and I tried to invalidate your negative emotions...
They NEVER WERE BAD, and they were never a means to make YOU bad. I am so sorry for any pain or anguish I may have caused you. I don't even want you to forgive me; I just want to say I am deeply sorry and remorseful.
...as hard as it is to believe, I did not know better.
And there are still days when I don't know better.
I love you and will be here for you whenever you need me. I need nothing from you and look towards you with a deep sense of gratitude for your perspective. I am learning and gaining so much from seeing and participating with your perspective. Know that you are never alone, that there's nothing wrong with being alone, and that I love you,
from the time you rise, to the time you set, and every moment in between, during your day, know that I love you and look forward to loving you even more today than I did yesterday.
Don't be mistaken though, its not that I find it hard to love you, at all... it's that when you live another day, another moment, another year... I find so much more to appreciate about you. IT'S not that you are becoming more lovable,
there just becomes even more of you for me to love. It's the great paradox of 1/1 and 5,000/5,000. They both equal 1, just by different means. And when you expand and experience something you don't like, we expand our number outward. So lets say 1/1 becomes 1/3. And THEN, You, the numerator and I work together to find each other again at 3/3. This is why you may feel lonely at times, it is because there is the illusion of a hole or gap. But let me let you in one a secret... you are Whole and there never was a gap... only another page for you to turn in the beautiful bedtime story, action, romance, beautiful, novel of your life.
Have fun writing today, Jon
Love,
Yours Truly.
10:10